From Garden to Table: Navigating the Joys of Subsistence Living in 1986
It's 1986. My Dad has a farm in the house. We grow our food. We rear sheep and Chicken. When my mother is cooking she goes out to the garden…
Biscuits, Chicken, and Childhood: Contrasting Generational Indulgences
In the 1980’s, it was only at Weddings or Engagements that you could have a Coke and Biscuit. The only time you could have Coke, Biscuit, and Chicken - ooh…
Victory and Tears: A Tale of Triumph and Reconciliation in the Soccer Match of ’87
It's 1987. I am playing a football match with my friends. We score a goal. The opponents don't agree. We start arguing. Someone insults me. A fight ensues. I am…
Growing Up: A Bedtime Evolution from Crowded Mattresses to Personal Havens
My son has his bedroom. My Daughter has her bedroom. In 1987, I used to share one king-size mattress with my other 5 siblings. To be specific, I shared one…
Teenage Tales: A Comedy of Errors on the Way to a Party
I am 15 years old. I am invited to a party. I am excited and nervous at the same time. My mother asks me to grab some food. I decline.…
Behind Closed Gates: The Intriguing Dynamics of Samantha’s Girlfriend Meetings
David is driving Samantha to see her girlfriend - Elaine. Samantha explains that David can not come in to say hello to Elaine. David has to wait for Samantha at…
Alpha to Omega: Witnessing the Rise and Fall of Borga in the Dog House
I am 10 years old. We have two male dogs in the house. Borga and Bruno. Borga is the eldest of the male dogs. As the head of the house,…
Becoming Independent: The Saturday Rituals of Boarding School Life
It's Saturday morning. I am in Senior Secondary School. The school is a boarding school. Going to boarding school has been a life-changing experience. I now have to take care…
Beyond Charm: How Being Useful Can Shape Meaningful Connections
My Daughter asks me, “Daddy, how can I attract people to my life? I reply by saying, “My dear, the most important trick I know to attract people is to…
Rediscovering My Voice: A Nudge from a Friend to Resume Blogging
It's November 2023. I have ignored writing on my blog for about 2 years. I get a WhatsApp message from a friend of mine asking me whether he can recommend…